Who this guide is for
This page is for people who live outside Colombia and are considering IVF with donor eggs at a Medellín clinic. That might follow low ovarian reserve, earlier cycles with your own eggs that did not work, a genetic condition you do not want to pass on, or simply age. The questions are grouped in roughly the order you will need answers.
Two narrower topics have their own pages. How donors are medically and genetically screened is covered in our guide to donor screening for IVF in Colombia. How to compare what different donor programmes charge is covered in comparing donor-egg programmes in Medellín.
1. Questions about the donor
The American Society for Reproductive Medicine’s guidance on gamete and embryo donation (ASRM, 2024) is written for U.S. programmes. It is still one of the most detailed public benchmarks there is, so it is a fair yardstick for a Medellín programme. It says egg donors should preferably be between 21 and 34. Donors under 21 should have a psychological evaluation. If a donor is over 34, her age should be disclosed to recipients during consent.
Questions to ask the clinic:
- What age range does the programme accept, and will you be told the age of your donor?
- Is the donor recruited by the clinic itself or through an outside agency?
- How many times may one woman donate? ASRM suggests a cap of six treatment cycles per egg donor, based on the cumulative risk to her. Ask whether the clinic has its own limit and how it knows if a donor has donated elsewhere.
- Has a licensed mental-health professional evaluated the donor? ASRM strongly recommends this for every donor.
- Which non-identifying details will you receive: physical traits, education, personal medical history, family history?
2. Fresh, frozen or shared eggs: how the supply is arranged
Donor programmes tend to work in one of three ways. A donor may be stimulated and retrieved in step with your preparation. You may receive eggs she produced earlier that are stored in the clinic’s bank. Or one donor’s eggs may be divided between more than one recipient. Each arrangement shapes your trip differently.
| Arrangement | What sets the key date | What it can mean for travel | Question to ask |
|---|---|---|---|
| Fresh, synchronised donor | How the donor responds to her stimulation | Your dates depend on someone else’s cycle, so changeable tickets matter | What happens to my plan if the donor responds poorly or withdraws? |
| Frozen eggs from a bank | Your own lining preparation | Usually easier to schedule, because the eggs already exist | How many eggs are in my allocation, and how does the lab report thaw survival? |
| Shared retrieval | The donor’s response plus the allocation rule | Can cost less, but your number of eggs depends on the split | How are eggs divided if she produces fewer than expected? |
Whatever the arrangement, ask how many mature eggs you are allocated, whether that figure is a minimum or an estimate, and what the contract says happens if fertilisation is poor or no embryo develops far enough for transfer.
3. Questions about your side of the cycle
Donor eggs take ovarian stimulation off your body, but they do not remove your medical work-up. The person carrying the pregnancy still needs a uterine assessment and a plan for preparing the lining. Whoever provides sperm needs a semen analysis and the infection tests the clinic requires. ASRM also advises screening the recipient’s sexually intimate partner.
- Which of these tests can be done at home before you fly, and in what format and time window does the clinic need the results?
- Will sperm be produced fresh in Medellín, frozen in advance, or shipped from a bank?
- If you have a health condition that makes pregnancy riskier, who reviews it before a donor is matched to you?
ASRM strongly recommends that recipients have a psychoeducational session with a qualified mental-health professional. It suggests covering whether and how to tell a child about donor conception, grief about not using your own eggs, the limits of donor screening, and what happens if treatment fails. Ask whether the Medellín clinic offers this in your language. If not, ask whether you should arrange it with a counsellor at home.
4. Anonymity: what your child may one day know
Many patients arrive expecting an anonymous donor. This is the place to slow down. ASRM’s 2024 guidance stopped using the word “anonymous” and now says “nondirected”, because consumer DNA tests and social media mean anonymity can no longer be guaranteed. It says donors and recipients should both be counselled about that.
The UK regulator makes a related point in its advice on fertility treatment abroad (HFEA). In the UK, donor-conceived people can request non-identifying information at 16 and identifying information at 18. Some countries allow anonymous donation, so a child conceived there may never be able to trace the donor. If your home country gives donor-conceived people a right to information, think about how your child might feel having different rights from donor-conceived friends.
- What donor information does the clinic keep, and for how long?
- Could your child request information later, and from whom?
- If the donor later learns she carries a hereditary condition, or your child develops one, is there a way to pass medical updates in either direction? ASRM says donors should be told that follow-up requests may come.
- Does the clinic limit how many families one donor helps? The HFEA notes the UK limit is 10 families per donor and that limits abroad may differ.
5. Embryos: how many to transfer and what to do with the rest
Donor eggs usually come from younger women, and that changes the transfer conversation. The ASRM/SART guidance on embryo transfer limits (2021) says the limit should follow the donor’s age, not yours. Its example: with a donor under 38 and other favourable features, plan a single-embryo transfer.
On embryo testing, the ASRM committee opinion on PGT-A (2024) says the overall evidence argues against routine testing in donor-egg cycles. If a clinic proposes it, ask what about your situation is the reason.
Donor cycles often produce more than one embryo, so you may well leave Medellín with embryos in storage. Decide before the cycle what you would want for any you do not use: a later transfer, donation, research or disposal. Read the forms that record those choices. Our guide to embryo storage consent for international patients goes through them.
6. How the trips usually fall
For a recipient, the in-person part of a donor cycle usually centres on one or two events rather than weeks of monitoring. With banked eggs, the key date is your transfer. With a fresh, synchronised donor, it is her retrieval, and a fresh transfer would follow some days later. Some patients freeze all the embryos and come back for a frozen transfer on a later trip, so their travel no longer hangs on the donor’s timing.
Ask the clinic to mark on a calendar the days when you or a partner must be physically in Medellín, for example to give a sperm sample, sign consents or attend the transfer. Ask it to mark the steps that can go ahead without you as well.
7. Your home country’s view of the family
The legal questions around donor conception depend mostly on where you live, not where you are treated. The HFEA notes that in the UK donors have no legal rights or responsibilities towards resulting children, that this may differ elsewhere, and that legal advice is wise where the position is unclear. The same reasoning applies whatever your home country. A family-law professional at home can tell you how treatment abroad with donor eggs affects parentage, birth registration and, for unmarried or same-sex couples, recognition of the parent who is not genetically related to the child.
From the clinic, ask for copies of every consent you sign, in Spanish and in a translation you can read. Also ask for a document describing the donor arrangement that a lawyer at home could review.
8. Money questions specific to donor cycles
Donor cycles carry costs that a standard IVF quote does not: donor compensation, her medications and monitoring, her retrieval and anaesthesia, egg-bank fees, and sometimes a refund or repeat-cycle programme. Three questions are worth asking directly. Is donor compensation inside the price or separate? If a programme promises a refund or another attempt, what exactly triggers it? And who pays for the donor’s care if she has a complication?
Short list to send before you commit
- The programme’s donor age range, and the age of my donor.
- Fresh, banked or shared eggs, and how many mature eggs I am allocated.
- The per-donor cycle cap and how it is tracked.
- What donor information is kept and what my child could access later.
- Whether recipient counselling is available, and in which language.
- The transfer plan based on the donor’s age, and the reason if PGT-A is proposed.
- Copies and translations of every consent form.
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Can I choose my own egg donor at a Medellín clinic?
Practices differ between programmes. Some let recipients review non-identifying donor profiles and others match a donor for you based on traits you describe. Ask which approach the clinic uses, what details are shared, and whether you can decline a proposed match.
Is an egg donor in Colombia anonymous?
A clinic may describe its donors as anonymous, but ASRM’s 2024 guidance notes that consumer DNA testing and social media mean anonymity can no longer be promised. Ask what donor records the clinic keeps, for how long, and whether a donor-conceived person could ever request information.
Do I have to be in Medellín for the donor’s egg retrieval?
Not always. If you are having a fresh transfer, or if sperm is being provided fresh on the day, someone needs to be there around the retrieval. If embryos will be frozen and sperm was frozen in advance, the clinic may be able to complete that step without you. Ask for a calendar showing which days require you in person.
Should embryos made from donor eggs be tested with PGT-A?
ASRM’s 2024 committee opinion says the overall evidence argues against routine PGT-A in donor-egg cycles. If a clinic recommends it, ask what specific feature of your situation is the reason.
How many embryos should be transferred when using donor eggs?
ASRM and SART guidance from 2021 says the limit should be based on the donor’s age rather than the recipient’s, and that a single-embryo transfer should be planned when the donor is under 38 and other factors are favourable. Your doctor should explain any recommendation to transfer more.
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